酷酷爸的從容

「兒兩歲。某日,頭撞桌角,長一包,大哭。
一分鐘餘,我走向桌子,大聲問:“桌子呀,是誰把你撞疼了?哭得這麼傷心?”
兒止哭,淚眼看我。我撫桌,沖兒問:“誰呀?誰撞疼了桌子?"
“我,爸爸,我撞的!"
“哦,是你撞的,那還不快向桌子鞠個躬,說對不起!"
兒含淚,鞠躬,說:"對不起"。
自此,兒學會了責任和擔當!

兒三歲。無故大哭,我問:“咋了,哪不舒服?"
“沒有不舒服。"
“那為什麼哭!"
“就是要哭!"明顯撒嬌。
“好吧,你要哭我們都沒意見,可是你在這兒哭不合適,會打擾我們說話的,爸爸給你找個地方,你一個人好好哭,哭夠了再叫我們。”
說完將兒關進了洗手間:"哭完了敲門。"
二分鐘後,兒拍門:“爸爸,爸爸,我哭完了!”。
“好,哭完了?哭完了就出來吧。"
至今,兒18歲,仍未學會操縱和遷怒!」
(故事摘錄自網路郵件,作者不詳,如有冒犯,請來信告知)

◎有多少爹媽、爺姥在孩子跌倒時-拍桌子、罵地板,彷彿這樣做,已經幫孩子出氣了事;如此這般,孩子學會了只要跌倒,先怪怪絆倒自己的東西。酷酷爸卻教孩子-凡事要自我負責,不怪桌子絆倒你,以後自己走路要當心。
酷酷爸是EQ高手,他沒有在孩子的哭聲中煩躁生氣,而是先了解哭泣的原因,再用四兩撥千金的方法處理孩子的情緒。孩子除了學會不能用哭鬧來操縱或遷怒別人,同時學會:心裡不舒服的時候,可以找個地方-正當合理的發洩情緒。


















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